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Milestones · 4 min

Which relationship dates to celebrate — and how not to forget them

A couple on a swing over the water at sunset

Every couple has its own holiday calendar. Celebrating it means reminding each other, again and again, that you chose each other. Here are the dates worth saving.

Classic anniversaries

  • The day you met.
  • Your first date.
  • The day you became a couple.
  • Your engagement or wedding, if it's happened.

Round numbers

  • 100 days together.
  • 500 and 1,000 days together.
  • Every half-year mark — especially sweet at a distance.
A hug under an autumn tree
A hug under an autumn tree

Your own holidays

  • Your first trip together.
  • The first “I love you”.
  • The day you moved closer to each other.
  • Any little thing that matters only to you.

How not to forget

Save the moment right when it happens — with a photo and a few words. Then mark it as a yearly holiday and turn on reminders for both of you. Your anniversary becomes a reason to relive the story instead of an awkward “wait, was that today?”.

In Ivivism, any moment on your timeline can become your holiday: it repeats every year, and on the day you both get a reminder.

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